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[LOVE, HATRED AND THE CROSS: HOW IT DOWN PLAYS IN THE QUARANTINE MOMENTS]
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How do you stay positive, preach hope and remain loving and big hearted in the face of position, misunderstanding, hostility and hatred?
Jesus lived this and perhaps the greatest personal and moral challenge to us who try to follow him.
How do you remain loving in the face of hatred?
How do you remain empathic in the face of misunderstanding?
How do you continue to be warm and gracious in the face of hostility?
How do you love your enemies when they want to kill you?
Virtually every instinct inside us works against us here.
Our natural instincts are mostly self protective, paranoid even, antithetic to self-abnegation and forgiveness.
Our innate sense of justice demands an eye for an eye, a giving back in kind, hatred for hatred, distrust, murder for murder. And this isn’t just time for the big things, or struggle to remain loving even in the face of irritation.
But how do we handle opposition, misunderstanding, hostility and hatred? Sometimes our response is paralysis.
We get so intimidated by opposition, misunderstanding and hatred that we retreat and go underground.
We retain our ideals but no longer practice them in the presence of those who oppose us.
We continue to speak love and understanding, but not to our enemies (whom we don’t exactly hate, but whom we now stay away from).
Sometimes our response is the exact opposite; namely, in the face of opposition we develop a skin that so thick that we don’t need to care about what others think of us: let them think whatever they want! They can like it or lump it!
The problem with the thick skin is that our capacity to saying right words and doing the right actions is partially based upon a certain blindness and insensitivity. In our mind, we don’t have a problem, others do. The insensitivity sometimes takes a more subtle form, condescension.
When we believe that we are big-hearted enough to love those who oppose and hate us, even so our empathy and love are predicated in a certain elitism, namely, on the feeling that we are so morally and religiously superior to those who hate us that we can love them in their ignorance: poor, ignorant people! If they know better!
This is not love but a superiority-complex masquerading as empathy and concern. That is not how Jesus treated those who hated him.
How did he treat them?
In the face of hatred and being put to death by his enemies, Jesus was not intimidated, nor did he become thick-skinned or condescending.
What did he do?
He rooted himself more deeply in his own deepest identity and inside of that, he found the power to continue to be warmed hearted, loving and forgiving in the face of hatred and murder.
How?
As Jesus was being persecuted, he prayed; “forgive them for they do not know what they are doing”. Karl Rahner, commenting on this, a stutely points out that, in fact, his executioners did not know what they were doing! They knew they were acting in ignorance.
Their ignorance as Karl Rahner points out lay at a deeper level: They were ignorant of how much they were loved, whereas Jesus was not.
That inner state of Jesus at the last supper, they say: Jesus knowing that he had come from God and that he was going back to God and therefore all things were possible for him, got up from the table and took of his outer robe.
Jesus was capable of continuing to love and forgive in the face of hatred and murder because at the very heart of his self-awareness, lay an awareness of who was God’s son, and how much he was loved. He wasn’t thick-skinned or elist, just in touch with who he was and how he was loved. From that source he drew his energy and his power to forgive.
We too have access to that same powerful spring of energy. Like Jesus, we too are God’s children and are loved that deeply. Like Jesus, we too can be that forgiving.
Very few things are needed today, in both in the society and Church, than this capacity for understanding and forgiveness, especially in our ultimate social, political, ecclesial, moral, religious and human challenge.
Sometimes Church people try to single out the one particular moral issue as the litmus test to whether or not someone is a true follower of Jesus.
If there is to be litmus test, let it be this one: Can you continue to love those who misunderstand you, oppose you, hostile to you, who hate you, and who threaten you without being paralyzed, calloused or condescending?
© Don. J.B Nyamunga
Girimori Catholic Parish - Kericho
[LOVE, HATRED AND THE CROSS: HOW IT DOWN PLAYS IN THE QUARANTINE MOMENTS]
Www.nyamusus.blogspot.com
How do you stay positive, preach hope and remain loving and big hearted in the face of position, misunderstanding, hostility and hatred?
Jesus lived this and perhaps the greatest personal and moral challenge to us who try to follow him.
How do you remain loving in the face of hatred?
How do you remain empathic in the face of misunderstanding?
How do you continue to be warm and gracious in the face of hostility?
How do you love your enemies when they want to kill you?
Virtually every instinct inside us works against us here.
Our natural instincts are mostly self protective, paranoid even, antithetic to self-abnegation and forgiveness.
Our innate sense of justice demands an eye for an eye, a giving back in kind, hatred for hatred, distrust, murder for murder. And this isn’t just time for the big things, or struggle to remain loving even in the face of irritation.
But how do we handle opposition, misunderstanding, hostility and hatred? Sometimes our response is paralysis.
We get so intimidated by opposition, misunderstanding and hatred that we retreat and go underground.
We retain our ideals but no longer practice them in the presence of those who oppose us.
We continue to speak love and understanding, but not to our enemies (whom we don’t exactly hate, but whom we now stay away from).
Sometimes our response is the exact opposite; namely, in the face of opposition we develop a skin that so thick that we don’t need to care about what others think of us: let them think whatever they want! They can like it or lump it!
The problem with the thick skin is that our capacity to saying right words and doing the right actions is partially based upon a certain blindness and insensitivity. In our mind, we don’t have a problem, others do. The insensitivity sometimes takes a more subtle form, condescension.
When we believe that we are big-hearted enough to love those who oppose and hate us, even so our empathy and love are predicated in a certain elitism, namely, on the feeling that we are so morally and religiously superior to those who hate us that we can love them in their ignorance: poor, ignorant people! If they know better!
This is not love but a superiority-complex masquerading as empathy and concern. That is not how Jesus treated those who hated him.
How did he treat them?
In the face of hatred and being put to death by his enemies, Jesus was not intimidated, nor did he become thick-skinned or condescending.
What did he do?
He rooted himself more deeply in his own deepest identity and inside of that, he found the power to continue to be warmed hearted, loving and forgiving in the face of hatred and murder.
How?
As Jesus was being persecuted, he prayed; “forgive them for they do not know what they are doing”. Karl Rahner, commenting on this, a stutely points out that, in fact, his executioners did not know what they were doing! They knew they were acting in ignorance.
Their ignorance as Karl Rahner points out lay at a deeper level: They were ignorant of how much they were loved, whereas Jesus was not.
That inner state of Jesus at the last supper, they say: Jesus knowing that he had come from God and that he was going back to God and therefore all things were possible for him, got up from the table and took of his outer robe.
Jesus was capable of continuing to love and forgive in the face of hatred and murder because at the very heart of his self-awareness, lay an awareness of who was God’s son, and how much he was loved. He wasn’t thick-skinned or elist, just in touch with who he was and how he was loved. From that source he drew his energy and his power to forgive.
We too have access to that same powerful spring of energy. Like Jesus, we too are God’s children and are loved that deeply. Like Jesus, we too can be that forgiving.
Very few things are needed today, in both in the society and Church, than this capacity for understanding and forgiveness, especially in our ultimate social, political, ecclesial, moral, religious and human challenge.
Sometimes Church people try to single out the one particular moral issue as the litmus test to whether or not someone is a true follower of Jesus.
If there is to be litmus test, let it be this one: Can you continue to love those who misunderstand you, oppose you, hostile to you, who hate you, and who threaten you without being paralyzed, calloused or condescending?
© Don. J.B Nyamunga
Girimori Catholic Parish - Kericho
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